Trying to move on

[ClingingToHope]

Need input, mostly from the now single ladies. I would be interested in asking out one of the two ladies I met last night.

She's in the divorce process as well. So we're both still married. I got her last name last night, but didn't ask for a phone number (too timid although I convinced myself it'd be too forward). But I know where she works so I could find it on my own.

Do I just call her and ask her out? Or do I send her a note saying I'd like to ask her out when I'm a little farther along in the divorce process? Or, I found her on FB, do I send her a friend request with a note it was great to meet her? And then build things from there.

I've been out of the dating game fifteen years so I need opinions.