Thank you! I feel a bit stronger after reading your replies.
What is working on the M? Does it mean pulling out all the stops? Going to counseling? Spending time together? I feel like I should say I won't settle for less than this. I am trying to stay focused and am a little angry that he would make me an option.
I am so glad I have this site!
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.