Thanks Pilot, I do not want to further hi-jack MSH's post but can you give me an idea of what "going dark" means to you. I am assuming it means avoidance from a physical and communicative perspective unless it relates to the kids-all in a civil manner.
I picked up the kids yesterday at her house. I did not go in and instead, waited outside for them and said very little to her. She got really pissy. I was not mean, just distant.
