Nice image, PatPat. I agree with Bworl, while it is sometimes effective to make the cheating spouse feel the extreme hurt of total rejection, it also can hasten a divorce as an unintended consequence. Perhaps it should be an absolute last resort method, but to make it the first and only method for dealing with the spouse cuts the process short and doesn't give the LBS time to make changes to make him/herself more attractive to be with.
