Thanks for the optimistic thoughts mza and knitted...but I think my ex is gonna be with this guy for the long haul. Aside from her being head over heels for him and the guy being interested in things she's interested in (sports and drinking) he's got a good job and is well to do...she's always been bad with money and now she has a guy that can give her whatever she wants in exchange for a 26 year old trophy and sex.
Flowmom...if my ex *really* needs to get in touch with me, she can either call our house phone or use another phone to call my cell.
But I'm not going to enable her to gather any more ammo on me by playing with my emotions just so she can try to take D3 away. All this back and forth of "we can hang out", then "I hate you we're done", then "if you want we can talk and text", back to "we're done if you dont leave me alone I'm calling the cops" business is a stress on me like you wouldnt believe. Every time it's happened it's like she's left me all over again.
Until she apologizes for falsely accusing me and threatening me (with murder!), and possibly even decides to end things with the OM, I think this is how it has to be. I just cant go through this again and again every week.
