H wants to talk tomorrow! Please advise.

[Lost Rabbit]

My sitch was very similar, H originally went for a couple of weeks to his brothers to see what he wanted to do, then he got his own flat without saying anything, nothing I said or did would change that.. In the mean time I found the DB site and read DR, that changed things completely round for me, during the two weeks I had gone completely NC as thats what we had agreed, after that H would visit for an alloted amount of time every saturday. I didnt discuss our R when he was around, but if the subject came up all I would say is "you know I want to work on our marriage" By the third saturday I had something booked and although he came up to get stuff I didnt see him and then went as little contact as I possibly could for a whole month, if he phoned he got very little information out of me, just that I was ok.. I got on GAL got a job and just let him be, you cant make decisions for them if they are going to come back they have to decide that for themselves, at the moment you are allowing him to cake eat, he wants his freedom but he wants you on standby.. Time to be busy and getting on with things for you!