Thank you everyone. Allen, that is almost word for word what I was pondering in my head. I wanted to post some of the texts that he sent me, most of which I didn't respond:
H: I'm pissed today cuz of the letter. We where starting to work things out and now u pull this. Then u sent her dad a letter
Me: WT#$^# are you talking about? - then I tried to call him with no answer
H:We stopped talking and then today she tells me her dad got a letter saying we r having an affair. It also said HIS MOMS NAME. So u sent my mom one.
I tried to call again, and still no answer
H: Don't call me! I'm done.
Me: I don't know what your talking about. I'm sick of being blamed for stuff I didn't do, I'm done.
H:Who else wood do that
Me: I don't know, and I don't care. This is your mess and I'm not taking the blame. Don't text me anymore.
This is when he called me, and I answered. I yelled and told him to leave me alone and that I wanted no part of his drama anymore. Towards the end of the conversation is when he told me he believed me, and was sorry. I said I don't care and hung up.
H: I'm sorry - no reply
H: Can I come talk to u Me: NO
H:I'm sorry. forgive me I over reacted - no reply
H: We where on our way to working it out and this time I messed up - no reply
H: So does this mean ur done with me Me: I need time alone right now. I'm sick of being treated like #$%^^
H: I understand I messed up. Let me know when u want to talk.
This is pretty much where it is right now.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10