I'm sorry--I was multitasking when I posted that last note and it sounds awful! what I meant was--I can make a little affirmation and support go a long way, so your investment is a very good one!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012