flowmom, I'll let him stew for awhile. That was a 180 for me, at least lately. I'm usually pretty strong and stand up for myself. However, in the last few months I've been trying to be more passive. It felt good to let go of some of that built up anger, and it was totally justifiable.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10