Not sure if the OWH, but I found out today that the OW father found out. My H texted and called me saying he was done, how dare I do something like that, blah blah blah. The funny thing is I had nothing to do with her father finding out. I guess someone sent him a letter saying she was having an affair with a married man.
I let my H have it. I told him how dare he accuse me of something I had nothing to do with. I told him this was his and OW's mess and I want no part of it. I said that it was sick how he was letting this OW control him and that she means nothing to me, and then called her a few choice names. He immediately started to apologize to me and say he was sorry. I finally told him I was done with all this drama and hung up on him.
He started texted me how sorry he was and wanted to know if he could come over and talk. I said NO!!!! He kept texting “I’m sorry”, and I didn’t respond, then he finally texted “Does this mean your done with me now”. I responded that I didn’t know what I wanted, and that I needed some time, and that I was sick of him treating me like @#%%. He responded with “I understand, I’m sorry; please let me know when you want to talk”. I haven’t responded and that was about 3 hours ago.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
