Out of everything that has happened between H and I, the only thing I can't take is when my kids are hurting. Do what you want to me, but don't hurt the kids. H doesn't even make the connection. All he says is they aren't the first kids to go through this, they won't be the last. What a bunch of crap! I work with kids with special needs and I see what this kind of thinking does to them. It is very sad indeed.
H and I used to have discussions about this very thing and agreed that this is part of the reason why the world is so screwed up. Then he goes and does this and puts his own kids through it. MLC sure has clouded up his judgement.
You're right in saying it is their relationship and at some point knowing her like I do she'll probably let him have it both barrels. I will keep out of it.
