I feel so pitiful in wanting my husband back. He is totally shutting everyone out. Only texting me (if that) and his sisters of his plans to Deploy to Afghanistan. What is going on?
He called this morning based on my text message to him. I try to validate him and tell him that I understood how he felt. I failed the 180 technique. I unfortunately, asked him to think about us.. and he just said very sarcastically... "Thanks for the Happy Birthday".
I know I have not been the perfect wife, and I have been angry at trivial things now looking back on and taking my frustrations out on him sometimes verbally. But he cheated on me. This woman was in my house while I was gone. Don't I deserve some consideration? I know, I am venting, but this shiznit is ridiculous.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
