Well, the wife has continued to stay over this week and is giving the full court press to move back home. She has cooked and cleaned and expressed her desire to try and make things up to me although she cannot undo what she's done. She has told me that she is in financial straights and can barely afford to pay her bills. She also stated that she knows her daughter cannot stand her.
I told her that I would not tolerate the anger anymore and that she needed to get help for it. It makes everyone around her uncomfortable and you should be able to relax in you own home, right? She gave me a sob story about how her boss at work is a jerk and wouldn't let her leave work for very much time to include getting dental work done. I told her she needed to work it out. She said she would go wether we got back together or not.
I'm still not certain what to do. I feel like I will regret my decision either way. Where's the crystal ball when you really need it?
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!