#2: WAH separated from us & I'm on the DBing path

[flowmom]

rr, expanding on talking about himself is a good minigoal for me. As far as friend gossip, it's kind of horrible but I feel like we don't have any mutual friends right now even though it seemed like we did in the past. There really isn't anyone that we are both connected to right now, which makes it a lot harder because there's no opportunity for the kind of indirect communication that can happen in those situations. H hasn't really had close friends in the few years while he's been apparently depressed, and the friendships that he's involved in now are superficial (or resurrected from the past) and related to his sport and job, which I'm not part of. As far as hug: I don't see that happening any time soon. I think that H is sticking to his own code of conduct of not giving me any false hope for our R (he kinda mentioned something like that right after he moved out).