I suggested that he show her that he can change and give her flowers for Valentine's Day. You may call it pursuing. I call it acknowledging that the other person is right and showing her that you hear what she is saying, and you are willing to change to make your lives better. If you don't start being nicer to her, why would she want to stay with you? Her words are that you NEVER give her flowers. At least you will be able to point to this ONE time that you gave her flowers.
