In short, I believe my actions forced her into the MCLERS. I was needy, co-dependant and pretty self centered in our marraige. I took her for granted. Now she is like a women scorned. So the struggle I have is that I have forgiven myself, I continue to work on myself with every part of my being I have seen so many changes in me but I am still very impatient and I struggle with detaching. We do not argue, we are actually quite cordial to each other but I need to do some things for me, like go back to school, etc. and she seems like she is so disconnected it is not even funny. I know I need to total ignore her and GAL but this morning I was really so done that I said I needed to talk with her about where we are going. I have some ideas on how to "change the direction of the conversation to something else" i.e. I am going back to school (her concern is that we are incurring more debt - although i have explained to her that my company will reimburse me). I also want to bring up things like therapy for the kids, etc.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
