1) There was an EA with someone in another state but I am not sure if it became a PA. She did the normal claim that they were just friends.
2) All along she has said that this marraige is over but wanted to wait to file until all of the debt is paid off. She believes that it will be paid in Sept. I can tell you it will not.
3) the new "possible" A is unconfirmed but apparently is her boss at her new job.
A little more info...before all of this started W was as sweet as pie. I was truly the A**. W has also never lived alone was pretty sheltered. So life as most of us know it is new to her. Also the reason all of this came to a head is stupid event I did at my 40th birthday party - In short, I grab some check breast, which truly was a total lake of respect for my wife. It was at this point that she pretty much flipped out and said it was over. We did MC for 3 session but I was a wreak. Some
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