SA, I think I would keep my mouth shut, as painful as it is to see. Really, their relationship is theirs, and he is the one who is causing her the pain. I doubt at this point if you saying anything would make a difference anyway, and would just push him further away. She is old enough to understand what is going on at least to some extent. I know she is hurt and I know how much pain that causes you as a mom to see. Just love her and be glad you are not the one causing the pain.
