By trigger with dating, do you mean that you hit one of his buttons, and then he ended off bringing up dating?
Yeah, I was asking him to be honest and I think he was taking it as I was asking me to disclose his private life even though I made it clear that that wasn't the case. I think he brought up dating to tell me to back off and give him space.
Originally Posted By: Onthemountaintop
If you are living apart, it makes sense that he'd be taking things. Even if he realizes that he should work on the M, if that is what God has planned, then a minimum level of comfort is needed - maybe (maybe) that is why he keeps taking things.
Not convinced it's all about comfort. He is taking old files and his filing cabinet that he never uses, for example.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
