Need some advice. Today H took D11 to breakfast. D17 was busy doing community service project and couldn't go with them.
D's have made it clear to H that they do not want to meet ow at this time. Their choice. According to D11, H wanted her to go to a swim meet that ow's grandchildren were participating in. D11 told him no thank you. H got a bit irritated that D11 didn't want to go and told her that she would have to get over this at some point because things were not going to change. The reason (besides the obvious) that this bothers me is that H can take the time out to attend ow's grandchildren's swim meets but can't even bother to attend D11's basketball games. She has asked him numerous times and he always has an excuse. D11 is a trooper, but I know this hurts her. Do I say anything to H about this or keep my mouth shut?
