Well we were apart for nearly six months and hes back now, but no over whelming remorse and he seems to convienantly not realise some of the stuff he did, there was no A but for all its worth he might as well off! All I can say is what ever happens you wont get over it but you will get on with it, if you get the chance to rebuild it you are going to need the strength to put stuff aside for a while, but from what I have read your a strong lass and you will be able to do this even if you need all of us cheering from the finish line every day with you.. We go for a week or two quite happy and then something comes up that we have to talk through, we then talk but he still doesnt get it, maybe he never will or maybe it will come a time when he really does get it who knows!

Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 02/13/10 07:22 PM.

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!