Here are some mini-goals that I've achieved in the past couple of weeks since the separation:
* H hasn't mentioned divorce or mediation or the coparenting plan in a couple of weeks. * H has started talking more than the bare minimum to me...occasionally tells me about things that happened with the kids * H has told me about some future plans, to be considerate as a coparent * H has disclosed a couple of personal things (work, sleeplessness)
Why do you think that you were able to meet these goals?