I hope I'm not married to your husband.. that would add a whole new element to things! LOL
Sole custody can be granted if you can show that the parents are unable to communicate effectively to come to decisions or one is uncooperative... and I've got emails showing him being uncooperative and turning down mediation as well as not providing me with info in a timely manner. Also, his phone calls to my work nearly got me canned so I'm building a case for it.
It isn't that he is a bad dad.. only that I can't get a decision out of him without being spewed on and can't talk to him on the phone without him being disrespectful. I am not going to sign up for years of abuse from him as I have enough on my plate trying to deal with 2 kids (1 special needs) and my mother living with me.
Also, he intends to move out of country by end of year so if we can't communicate so close to each other, how the heck can we decide things farther apart?
~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~
My Sitch in MLC - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=45253&Number=1901148#