H comments on any change that I've made H touches me in any way H mentions the future in a way that indicates uncertainty (not as if the D is a done deal) H indicates any curiosity about my state of mind H initiates any activity that would involve us being together as a family
Gee, Flowmom, these look pretty good! I could copy and paste them for myself, LOL!
But I wonder if there would be an order of progression? Not that you can control it but more that you don't expect him to question divorce right away...do you see what I mean? like he comments on changes first, initiates activity involving family, acts curious about your state of mind, touches you, then expresses uncertainty about divorce?
I hope I didn't confuse you!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
