All I can say is "Wow" - you have shown incredible strength. I am just thankful that I had found out about the truth in about my WAW when I was 180 miles away. I do not think I would have that type of resolve if the POS that my WAW had cheated on me with got in my face.
I don't have any advice but you know my prayers are with you brother!
Stay the enlightened man!
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13