Her complaints.
She indicated I never valued her as a wife.
>I would say things in public to bring her down.
>I didnt support her when she was having issues with some of my friends wifes.. I tried to keep it together for everyones sakes instead of picking her side.. I wanted everyone to be happy.
>I treated her like a house wife and mother instead of a wife.
>I wouldnt do anything special for her. Never bought flowers
>She was a stay at home mom for 9 years, and I did alot of stuff, diners, lunches etc and never took her.
>I neglected her, and took her for granted that she was always going to be there. ( I told her that I was wrong in doing this)
>She lost the effection towards me approx 2 years ago. I felt it, and then I suffocated her.. ( Her words)
>I always wanted to be intimate with her, and when she refused I would get upset at her.
> never cared for her feelings
> never asked her about her feelings
> when she said she needed to find herself, I fluffed it off..

I never gave her the attention that she deserved..

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)