And if the case, I think I gave some back last night. Kind of went with the reward the good behaviour technique and texted back and forth to W last night in very positive friendly but not quite flirtatious manner...but only after she initiated things. In fact, now that I think about it, she was actually still texting me till she was about 1 mile away from the house... And I let her know how outstanding the food she brought me back from the restauarant was.
So if the good behaviour continues, I will reward it. If not, go back to ignoring it I guess is kind of my thoughts right now.
Sounds good. But now keep your radar up. These things don't happen overnight - as you know. And when you are rewarding good behavior, stop short of the full reward. Another way to say that is...leave her wanting MORE. Be the first one to stop texting. Be the one to say "Gotta run" during phone calls. Leave her wishing you didn't have to go. Never overstay your welcome. This is Chick Intel
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