Fast track to her divorcing me

[ClingingToHope]

I asked my attorney the other day if I have to be in court the day the D is finalized. He said I didn't so if/when it gets to that, unless it's contested and have to be there, I don't plan to be.

I look at it this way. I was there for all of the important moments, asking her to marry me, the wedding, the honeymoon, buying our two houses, the births of our two daughters, burying my mom and her dad.

This date. I don't need to be there for that and that way I can avoid the "Are you sure" and "Are you happy" questions. The only time those answers are what you want to hear are in the movies.

If I even consider asking them I'll remember what happened to you.