:I guess I can still do these things after telling her that is she wants to move on thats her choice
You can only control you. You can not control her.
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We are still living together and I am not forcing her out. I told her that she has time to find a place
These two statement seem to oppose each other. You are not forcing her out but she has to find a place. Which one is it?
Personally I would not force her out. If she chooses to leave you can not control that. You should not be making choices for her. Only for you and your children.