I guess I can still do these things after telling her that is she wants to move on thats her choice.

Those on the list are things that I was trying to do.. Not very successfull mind you, but trying.

We are still living together and I am not forcing her out. I told her that she has time to find a place.

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)