Lotus, Yes, I have have asked her to go to counceling with me and Retrouville. I did this much earlier and the answer was no..
Her response has always been that she wants to be alone..
I didnt push it.


M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)