Lotus, Yes, I have have asked her to go to counceling with me and Retrouville. I did this much earlier and the answer was no.. Her response has always been that she wants to be alone.. I didnt push it.
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)