Ny NOT persuing! By using body language like shoulders back, head up, eye contact, walking with purpose, smiling as if you have inner joy and a secret (not a wide toothy grin!) Letting nasty comments roll off your back with a shrug.

Looking your best, having a positive mental attitude, and being relaxed.

fake it til you make it...

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004