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talia #1935914 02/11/10 03:07 AM
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Cutter, once again another sitch handled with dignity and strength. I can only imagine how hard that was, and you did it. YOu are right, it was the right thing to do to support good people.
(((Cutter)))) - proud to know you, my friend!

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Ditto to all that, CB!

Your BIL and all the family appreciated your being there more than you will ever know.

And how you held up during a sermon on 50 years M and such... I will never know.

You are bringing your inner peace to others, and that is as the Buddha, Jesus, and all the other great teachers ask us to do.

Peace.


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Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
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avermont #1935929 02/11/10 03:36 AM
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I couldn't believe how hard the service was...you made it through that but then it blew me away to see how strong you were to converse with Ladybug and join her and her brother for lunch!!! Wow. I bet you are drained now.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
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Editors - Bricks and Mortar

For those of you who love joydivision


No one understands,
the way you found your God,
there's a bullet in your hands,
Give a dog a bone,
feed him for the day,
and teach him how to kill and,
I am the close defence
I am the city wall,
stealing pounds and pence
from you all.

Still no one understands,
the way you found your God,
there's a bullet in your hands.

Pour salt water on the wound,
pour salt water on the wound,
this home is more than
Bricks and Mortar,
pour salt water on the wound.

Ah!

When the boys told you,
you have the arms of a soldier,
those arms will never hold her again.
It's just like I told you,
when the boys told you,
he's gonna be a soldier for them!

Pour salt water on the wound,
pour salt water on the wound,
this home is more than
Bricks and Mortar,
pour salt water on the wound.

I hope life is good for you.
I hope life is good for you.
I hope life is good for you,
I hope life is good for you

Ah!


Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!
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My god, CB--kill me with Joy Division, why dontcha.

It's a wonder I didn't kill myself in high school, hanging out all dramatic dressed in black and listening to JD.

I can only listen to Salsa/Cuban music now. Nice beat, no words I can understand.


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avermont #1937159 02/12/10 04:45 PM
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Aver -
You and I would have been great friends in high school!!!

Difference - I still like the music wink and I guess I still wear alot of black... hmmmmm...


ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09
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talia #1937242 02/12/10 05:40 PM
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I still like the music too, and I almost always wear black. Hey, it's a good color on me, and hides all my spills. (I'm a bit messy)

I am just not listening to any music NOW as I can't stand to hear--almost anything that might make me think of X.

Yes, high school--smoking cigs, hanging out, trying to be cool--those were the days!


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Together: 23 years; never married
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Walk away; no conversation; no process
avermont #1937583 02/13/10 01:48 AM
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Originally Posted By: avermont
I still like the music too, and I almost always wear black. Hey, it's a good color on me, and hides all my spills. (I'm a bit messy)

I am just not listening to any music NOW as I can't stand to hear--almost anything that might make me think of X.

Yes, high school--smoking cigs, hanging out, trying to be cool--those were the days!


Its Friday

So as a reward 3 songs that I just love.... from back in the day

Yea its a monty python sketch.... ska style

Rudy a message to you

and Some say she is from mars....... Well she isn't

Since I am canadian I need to add some canadian content. Its the law Eh...

Echo Beach


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Oh, the Specials....saw them in the early 90's as a "reunion" tour.

Saw the Psychodolic Furs at a "reunion" tour, too. Richard Butler was the only original member. Still has that voice!

Spent the past 20 odd years listening to jam bands as that is X's music. I like it too, don't get me wrong, but it may be time to strike out on my own musical tastes search.


Me: 44
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Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
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avermont #1937777 02/13/10 03:36 PM
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Aver-I understand what you are saying about "striking out on your own musical tastes search"! My H is a huge blues fan and I came to like it too since I have known him (well, I liked some of it for years but didn't know it was classified as blues!) but listening to it now makes me sad so I have "retreated" into the oldies (stuff that I listened to growing up) and am actually checking out some of the music that my D11 enjoys!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing
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