I guess I continue to DB and read the DR book..
I need to work on me still.

My DBing etc, is it something I should continue, and do I go dim instead of dark.. I dont know.
advice is very much appreciated

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)