Welcome to divorcebusting.com! I'm excited that Sandi2 responded to you because she is the best of the best on the board. She has been around a long time, and she is a success!
(Always go with the successes!) Her advice is great!
What are your wifes specific dissatisfactions? You are going to have to dig deeper. You are going to have to support her, help her build her self esteem. These affairs can take about 6m to 2 years....but it isn't likely to last. You don't wait around passively, you change things actively, but not reactively. That's strong manhood.
This is going to be a long haul, and you will have to be tough.
That's ok....because I really sense YOU CAN DO IT, and you will be a SUCCESS.
So....what is her vision of being successful? Do YOU need to be more successful as well?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
