CW, I will save you the hassle of going through my meandering thread! ;-)

I am simply not cooking dinner*, not hanging around the house when he is here, not going out of my way to find thing to talk about with him, taking care of some things he normally would help with and staying polite+looking good but just gone more than I ever was!

*for him specifically; I will still cook on Sunday night for me and then have leftovers in the fridge.If he is hungry he is welcome to it!

So will monitor results until March and see if he reacts positively; i.e. persuing behavior, ending A (you never know!)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004