Thanks everyone.. I feel better about yesterday and I didn't then nor now regret hanging up on him. I will not be treated disrespectfully by anyone least of all him.
The funny part of all this is that he is so adamant that he wants joint custody and equal decision making on major decisions and sole custody would preclude that. BUT, am I wrong or isn't long term or out of country travel considered a major decision? So either way, he'd need my consent to do either with the kids!
~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~
My Sitch in MLC - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=45253&Number=1901148#