Ok. If your goal was to use this as a technique to save your marriage, you will need to use the time apart to CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIORS.

Do not get reactive (this was a reactive move).

What were her complaints about you and your relationship?

Oh....and YOU are responsible for what you do, not the 'board' and the advice you get. You get DBers not professionals on the board.


There are some wonderful men and women who are experienced at not only saving their marriages but creating great relationships.

And that's what you will do now...work to build a great relationship with her.

sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001