Take a deep breath. Relax. I know that it is next to impossible to do what I just said. But you need to focus on getting yourself under control. Kind of like in an airplane when you put on your own oxygen mask first. The you can start to look around after that.
Try to keep to one thread. Don't start another one with the same post.
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I tried db and nc. Probably didn't give it enough time and may regret this.
You started posting 9 days ago. You didn't give anything any time. You can't db and nc in 9 days. There are no magic buttons to this. If you want to get D then it sounds like you are doing a great job.
Is that what you want???
Have you read DB book or DR book.
Read this link on detachment. Start to work on this.
