NM, H4L and LR-thanks guys for the input...point taken with the card. I will catch up on Trent C's thread...glad to hear there is good news!

New Mama-S14 has been in this mode for quite awhile now...he is always "forgetting", doesn't do his homeowrk etc but gets B's on his tests. He can space off watching tv and not hear a thing and then at school be easily distracted by others. Doesn't hurt to have him tested and yes, it might be worse becasue of sitch with H. Will catch up with your thread to find out what you mean about "slowly withdrawing"

Really appreciate the input guys!!!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing