My ring belongs to my mother-in-law. If my H (if we really do end everything) asks for it back to give to one of the girls I would respond that I will keep the ring and when one of them do decide to get married and WANT the ring that I will give the ring to her.
This was a gift to me from my H and no matter where our M is at this point the ring means something to me.
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1