I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. It is never easy when a close family member is sick. Don't lock up ypur feeling while you help your family. I think expressing them, perhaps to H will keep you strong during this difficult time.
hugs and blessings, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Oh Kalni, I wish you and your family strength and peace right now.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
I'm sorry to disrupt the flow here, but I keep up with your thread because you and everyone here are so insightful and generous in your sharing. I was moved by your post last week about the book "Passionate Marriage" to pick up my copy and continue reading. It's dense with information and on my first attempt I only made it about 25% through.
I wanted to let you and others here know that David Schnarch and his team have developed a cool interactive website for "people who want an emotionally healthy life". It has an interactive forum, much like this DB forum, and a place to post personals if you want to meet people for friendship or romance. It just opened a week ago. One of the coolest aspects of this website is that David Schnarch himself has posted on the forum. I don't know, but it's possible he may interact with posters since this is such a new venture for his group. The web address is: crucible4points.com.
Hey K, I am so sorry to hear that, about your sweet Dad. Are they giving him any more treatment? And yes your brother too.. a cuddly bear (not overweight!) but yes, a bear. We had such a lovely evening chatting to him although we had only just met. He seemed very warm and very interested in other people and their perspective on life...Thinking of you and your family, I am glad you have H living with you again to be there for you this time and hopefully help you through this. xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread