I've wanted to have sex about once a day ever since my early teens. It's now decades later, and I still want sex once a day. My wife is never interested in sex. When we first met, she thought it was a good thing. After a while, she thought once a day was too much, and we had a lot less sex. After some more years, and I told her I would like to ML every day, she thought it must be because I was having stress at work, or that I was not normal, etc. Funny, because she thought it was great when we first met. I've been in therapy individually, and jointly. None of these things diminished my desire for frequent sex.
At some point, you have to realize that having a high sexual desire is a gift to be enjoyed, not an abnormality for which a psychological pathology is required as an explanation. And if you have a partner who isn't interested, you pay a price for having that "gift" or great capacity for sexual enjoyment.
If my wife were like HDWife, sex wouldn't be an issue. We'd be too busy f***ing ourselves to sleep every night, year after year. And that's not to mean it would be boring and the same -- quite the contrary. I'm a big sexual flirt all day long. Hey, I even called my wife at work in the morning several times, and suggested meeting in a hotel for a romantic and fun quickie during lunch. I suggested we try it in any kind of a fantasy approach she might like. I suggested it a handful of times of the years. Never happened. Just one of many different things I suggested that never happened.
I totally agree with HDWife. If I've had sex with a good buildup and a mind-blowing orgasm, I've got that extra energy and bounce in my step for the next 24 hours. And if I know that good sex is a sure thing within 24 hours, I feel free of that mental burden of trying to figure out how and when and where I'll get a chance to realize sexual fantasies that have been building up all day.
