HI Aver,
I don't know if I can help much but ((((Aver))))

I'm struggling with how hard to fight too. What is in YOUR best financial interest??? Speaking personally - I'm not giving up my biggest investment over the last 7 years just because H is stupid. I'm living here and I'm not going anywhere - possessionl is 9/10th of the law grin

Fight for the house - as far as you know there's no chance he's coming back anyway. Unless I'm mssing something in your posts. Any cracks in doors are purely imagined at this point - I hate to tell you. Time to do whats best for you financially and forget what that might mean to H - he's probably not thinking about you.

If you fight for the house or not WON'T be the ONE THING that brings him home or pushes him away. Don't let that crazy thought get to you...

RUN RUN RUN FROM THAT THERAPIST - SHE'S AN IDIOT!

Sending you the love,

T

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