This is great, Flowmom.

I have been trying to figure out how to do The Work in my sitch, and you pretty much did it for me.

With this to inspire me, I will try to turn around the sentence:
X shouldn't have left me.

I will look at this post more closely tomorrow.

Thanks for the inspiration.

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process