and you can take your aggression out and build a "manly man Arnold Scwarzenneger" confidence but with a calm, non confrontational attitude toward your ex! ;-)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
