I have seen it where it's been posted we do things that prolong our spouses MLC.
Other than the R talk which got most of nowhere and staying out of the line of fire...
Whatelse?
You are asking WHAT we do that can prolong their MLC?
You tell us what you think.
I'm not being obtuse on purpose, just trying something new with you. Giving you advice seems like sink to me. Now if you figure it out on your own...maybe it might stick.
No the advice is sticking had to get past the shock and devastation first. I'm still not quite right mentally (foggy) and I accept but don't accept this divorce either, but it's happening.
Right now how I feel, I'd rather be consistent and keep my word, I don't know how I will do it, but I want her to keep the house.
Do not be obtuse on this Jack.
If given the opportunity, no I talk means, ask about her, but DO NOT offer anything about myself or how I feel, right?