WAW now pregnant.....not mine

[MarkG]

.... Wait... Has she been diagnosed BPD or do you at least have heavy suspicion? I have suggested the thought of ppl's WAS's having BPD as my W seems to have a blatantly obvious case of it but is not diagnosed and when I see the pattern behavior in threads I bring it up as a possibility. BPD is serious, probably worse than bipolar, but is still manageable. Keep that in mind as well.

As far as her texting OM, remember that he is the new baby's father, and they will need to keep contact. Text messages still going on do not equal a R between them. Make sure to do some more investigating before deciding sending/receiving texts is your only argument for "knowing" they're continuing a R.