My Story...possible "grass is greener" scenario?

[newmama]

nsw, your last text is a good "last impression" that should now be followed with nothing more from you...(no more whiny neener neener tit for tat) but "pick D up at 5. Thanks." etc

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.

As for hobbies, my friend's H has similar interests as you but also likes paintball where he goes with or without buddies...he has met new friends doing it.

[nsw1222]

As for hobbies, my friend's H has similar interests as you but also likes paintball where he goes with or without buddies...he has met new friends doing it.

paintball...interesting idea. I do (or did) enjoy the shoot-em-up games when I play on the computer...and that would be similar only I wouldnt be stuck in this house. thanks for the idea.

[newmama]

and you can take your aggression out and build a "manly man Arnold Scwarzenneger" confidence but with a calm, non confrontational attitude toward your ex! ;-)

[nsw1222]

So how does one exude confidence and self-assuredness without it coming off as pursuing?

[newmama]

Ny NOT persuing! By using body language like shoulders back, head up, eye contact, walking with purpose, smiling as if you have inner joy and a secret (not a wide toothy grin!) Letting nasty comments roll off your back with a shrug.

Looking your best, having a positive mental attitude, and being relaxed.

fake it til you make it...

[sgctxok]

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