I don't know what is said on the texts. I've just been reviewing her phones activity via the provider's website.
I set a boundary before that she ignored. With the new circumstance of her expecting, I haven't attempted any boundaries as I've filed and determined I was done.
Maybe I'm wrong, but my thinking is that if she is sincere in truly wanting to reconcile she will stop the R with the OM. My fear is that if I offer to attempt a reconciliation (and I'm no where near that yet) she might accept, but not for the right reasons. More because she needs financial support and needs someone to pay (literally, not figuatively) for her child.
